Five things every man should know about online dating
Our dates were lively and fun, and he was really cute.It had been ages since I’d felt that way about anyone, and I was so happy and relieved.The really sad/funny thing is that men have NO idea how intensely their texting habits are being scrutinized. There are all kinds of reasons why this is such an issue for women and why men are so oblivious to it – reasons we’ve discussed at length in previous articles– but the takeaway is that this whole thing is a non-issue for men. Yeah, they’ll text a lot in the beginning when they’re trying to win you over, but it’s not sustainable or realistic to continue at that level indefinitely.
Fortunately, I’m not the selfish type and am more than happy to share everything I’ve learned.After some time has passed and the relationship is a bit more established, this urge isn’t as pressing and it begins to feel like work.Sadly, a lot of relationships collapse before they even get off the ground because the girl can’t handle the sudden decrease in daily texts and instead of dealing with it, she lashes out at the guy and demands explanations for every text he doesn’t reply to.You’re here, I know, because you’re holding onto hope by a tiny little thread.I get it—it seems like an impossibility that you will meet the right person, someone […] Read more It all started when an eharmony engineer named Greg Petroski thought to himself, wouldn’t it be cool if there was an eharmony skill for Amazon Alexa, where you could check out your matches, listen to messages, and get updated without lifting a finger?