Girls find me intimidating

I conducted an informal (and utterly unscientific) poll on the Dr.

Nerd Love Facebook Page, trying to get a handle on what guys mean. So let’s take a look at what men say is intimidating… Men can find beauty intimidating; the more attractive the woman, the more advantages society gives her.

If he doesn’t have the self-esteem or confidence to get past the power differential – and beauty looking for someone better.

Similarly, if a man is interested in a woman who’s more in line with the idea of more traditionally feminine or lady-like behavior, he isn’t going to make for a good boyfriend for an outgoing, dominant or non-traditional lady.

This is not to say that incredibly beautiful women will only go for the model-handsome mind you – look at Christina Hendricks are the one making the first move, they may feel as though they will be in constant competition with other men: ones with better jobs, fatter wallets, movie-star smiles, and abs you could do laundry on.

Your instinctive response may be to play down your looks, and while this can work – there’s a reason why the “beautiful-after-all” trope exists; everyone likes the idea of the librarian who’s secretly model-gorgeous – it’s ultimately putting the responsibility on you.

Instead, make a point of being approachable and friendly.

Wide smiles that reach your eyes (the “Duchenne Smile”) and open, welcoming body language can make a shy or introverted guy feel more welcome.

Leave a Reply

  1. Teen tits webcam video 05-Mar-2019 04:07

    “Hindi naman every Valentine’s ay may ka-Valentine’s ako.

  2. dating website username generator 08-Jun-2019 20:35

    The VA is a guarantor for refinancing your loan, but the new loan value can’t exceed the appraised value of your home.

  3. conervative dating sight 14-May-2019 11:18

    This is why dating sober can be both exhilarating and devastating. When it’s devastating, it can make you want to get high or drunk.

  4. Live free cam women egypt 30-Jul-2019 11:19

    In fact, while the Kickstarter promises to deliver more books to low-income kids, there are already some hints that it’s not totally up to speed with those same kids’ digital realities.

  5. Live wives sexy chat 07-Aug-2019 02:34

    At least five such examinations have taken place, Amnesty International says.